Someone else's turmoil

I have a friend who has found himself entangled in an unhealthy relationship. He has put the needs of this woman and her son above his and he isn't taking care of himself. I want to show him that he has a lot of potential and that there are opportunities out there for other relationships. While she is a very attractive lady, perhaps at this time, he could make a healthier choice for a romantic relationship.

I speak from experince. In the past, I have attempted to assume another person's burdens. And that may seem to be compassionate, it may only complicate one's life and just compound the problems of all those involved, and they may all end up ensnared in an ugly cycle.